Since moving to Cuffern Manor in August 2004, we have been researching the history of the house. It would appear that the present house was built around 1770 by John Rees Stokes. This has led to two different areas of investigation: The House And Its Occupants and The Stokes Family.
October 2020 We have obtained a Conveyance from Des Morgan (Dirty/Rose Pool) which adds to the story. W.H.Owen and Edith Beatrice Owen , brought 93 (?) acres from William Roberts and James Rees and Florence Catherine Devonald in January 1930. He sold it in 1937 to Col. Higgon for £2350 – Cuffern, outbuildings, gardens, fields, Cuffern Lodge and Dirty Pool Farm – -93 acres- the conveyance includes the right of Norman Collins to access a spring on Higgon’s land.Part of this 93 acres was then sold to George Barros on 10th Nov. 1951
May 2020 Jennifer Sharpe writes:
Good afternoon, have been looking at your website and particularly the history of Cuffern manor as I work there for many years as did my mother, I can’t help feeling a little disappointed with the brief history, Cuffern was a very much loved nursing home.
I have to say I’m so surprised when finding out history about the place nothing was mentioned about all the love and care that was in the house as it was many residents home, everyone that worked there all had story’s of “the comings and going” that went on.
Can I just ask have you ever heard the children running up and down the corridor on the top floor? Have you ever felt it cold and a presents on the stair case?
I appreciate that isn’t something that you would like to put on website it’s purely curiously. (no.. is our answer…….but note the exorcism took place in , we think, 1999)
I have gone through many of your pictures and I have to say it looks stunning.
It was a pleasure to meet Angela Llewelyn who came to see us in October 2019 . She was born and lived at what is now Cuffern Garage but was then known as The Laurels. Her parents William Hugh Collins and Mildred (ne Thomas) had inherited the farm from his father, Norman Collins, who had bought it from the Cuffern estate – maybe at the time of the auction in 1918 ? Norman was born in 1885 and had some background in engineering , maybe at a Rover factory in the Midlands. It is not clear what led him to Pembrokeshire or why he might have adopted the Collins name. He married Lettice Davies and their three children were William Hugh, Dilys and Eileen. Hugh and Mildred also had three children Peter, Angela and Pamela. Living so close to the Manor meant Angela had memories of the owners and their children and recollections of playing and working there. Her grandfather was a chauffeur , probably for the Massys , maybe that was why he arrived in Pembrokeshire? He had memories of Emma Massy as a wild horsewoman , riding sidesaddle, all dressed in black.
Angela worked for George and Billa Barath and creates a picture of the days of the hotel which is both affectionate and comical, Fawlty Towers coming to mind. One chef was partial to a drink and used to spit into the fat to see if it was boiling. Pretensions of high class dining didn’t always live up to reality, with a long and ambitious menu not matching what was in the larder. Silver service maybe but ‘its off’ and ‘its off’ and ‘we only have trout’ greeting the poor waitress as she conveyed the order to George. ‘Game pie’ was likely to be local rooks, shot by George.
George was very hospitable, well liked and full of schemes and dreams. Angela remembers his invitations to neighbours to come round to eat copious amounts of his caught bass and being suddenly left, when only 15, to serve two whole spit roasted pigs. And there being a certain atmosphere in the kitchen in the mornings. We know from others that George was likely to have been up most of the night serving the late night drinkers at the bar.
Angela was great friends with the twin Lineker sisters from Brock Farm, one now living in Cornwall and the other in Leamington Spa , whose father Bill died after a heart attack and driving himself to the hospital . Both girls married american servicemen, presumably from Brawdy.
Angela was married at Cuffern in 1978 and now lives in Fishguard (2019). Cuffern Farm/Garage has recently been sold by Peter Collins to Scott Goddard.
The Barath family paid a visit in the summer, Billa and her two daughters and son-in-law.Emma wrote “It was an emotional visit for my Mum who’s only regret in life (she tells me) was leaving The Cuffern and Pembrokeshire. We think the property is looking really well loved and cared for and I hope everything works out well for you.” The sisters were both under 10 when they left but had lots of memories as well.
Mary Roberts, now living in Herefordshire, stayed here for a family wedding, being held in Tenby. She was able to tell us a few things about William Harries Owen who owned the Manor until 1936. He built Ashleigh House, just after the turning to Keyston, on the left towards Haverfordwest. His two daughters, Glenys, a nurse married to a Fishguard Outfitter, and Doreen, married to a bank manager, had no children. Of the Manor’s 93 acres – 36 were rented to T.H.Roach. William Owen married to Beatrice who was a Roberts and the sister of Mary Roberts, grandmother of our guest, also Mary. Both the Roberts and the Wades feature heavily in the pamphlet -Lives of Great Men, A History of the Keyston United Reformed Church by W.L.Richards. Howard Wade of Wolfsdale married Evelyn Roberts of Dudwell Jack Roberts, Mary’s father, became treasurer of the Chapel in 1943, a post held for 43 years. We are still not clear when William Owen bought the estate or why. Mary said it was his private house – so a downsize and some when he left in 1936!
January 2016 The fire in October 2015 and the fall of the holm oak tree by the ‘angel’ corner of the walled garden in January 2016 are significant milestones in the history of the house. Mike Penfold visited to see the tree and said he had been left to look after the place after George Barath left and at one time Mr. Glen brought in a lady from Solva to try and get the rooms together, they were in a terrible state, to try and reopen. However this fell through when applying for the license to be renewed it emerged that she had a criminal conviction. (nb in October 2018 an ex Brawdy serviceman, Ivan Pennell, said that the owner at one time was a Mrs Nutter – which we already knew – but he said she was a teacher, from Blackburn, which was new to us. )
The tree just fell apart one morning when we were out and the builkders heard terrific rumbling and cracking.
The fire , October 2014. Its not yet history but it will be so we’d better get the full story in here for the record. Being the third significant fire in just over 100 years, in 1899 the engine taking one hour to get here from Haverfordwest, in 2002(?) had they been here 10 minutes later the house would not have been saved and on October 14th no less than five engines and one water tender arrived pretty swiftly following a call from Paige at about 4.30 pm. Crews from St Davids, Haverfordwest, Narberth, Milford were called on. She had left about 8.30 for college and we had left about 10.30 for a day out with Desmond and Phyllis, and a hospital appointment in Ammanford. We followed the water tender from Simpson Cross with growing anxiety , about 5 – and the sight greeting us was one we will never forget. The fire had started in Paige’s sitting room and intense heat, but not a blaze, burnt or melted pretty much all that was there and blackened the rest of the flat. What saved the rest of the house was fire proof ceiling tiles and the new fire door in the corridor. Strangely this was the same room as the fire in 2002 (?), and like that one, no cause has been found, despite extensive investigations by all concerned. Other curious coincidences: the first fireman into the house was part time St Davids man and baptist minister, Geraint Michael, who officiated at Will’s wedding. Richard and Maureen Langston rang to say they were coming down on the Friday, not knowing there had been a fire.He recommended using an assessor to help us with the claim, as he had done, and it turned out to be the same company who had phoned at 8 pm the same night as the fire and despite being given short shrift arrived from Somerset the next morning to be given short shrift again. But we decided to use the firm anyway and the same team worked on it as before. The damage from the smoke and water meant that all the ceilings and walls under the lounge and down to the ground floor had to be removed and what appeared to be a limited repair took five months and we couldn’t reopen until easter 2016. Fortunately we were able to remain on the site and live in the new cottage at the back. So ‘Police investigate the blaze at Cuffern Manor’ as the local paper of historical record, the Herald, headlined the story, was only correct in one out of three respects. When everything was restored we were able to update certain features.
The Owners/Occupiers of Cuffern ( now called Manor but also known at different times as House and Mansion)
Stokes: Many Stokes in the county. And in Roch.
A John Stokes died in 1770. A ,John Rees son of Henry Rees and Ann Harries, took the name Stokes and built the house in the same year. We assume that John Stokes was the father
1770- 1817 John Rees (Stokes) – built Cuffern Manor
Married Frances Warren of Trecwn. Two sons John and Henry (who married Ann Phillips of the Lort Phillips – and his home was Scotchwell and his son Admiral John Lort Stokes).
Friend of John Wesley.
1777-1843 John Stokes Stokes m . Martha Bowen
(d of Rev James Bowen of Rhoscrowther)
240 Acres of Cuffern demesne, 114 of the Cuffern Mountain, 94 Acres of Cuffern Farm and 95 acres of Start farm (1837) 3 daughters and a son (Catherine,m Captain then Admiral George Lloyd, Elizabeth Ann m Rev Berrington of Nolton and Ellen Sophia m G.R. G Rees d 1886 , and John)
In 1841 – there were six servants – he was retired (Coroner) and died soon afterwards
1818 -88 John Stokes
Jesus College, JP DL and Coroner,Deaf in the left ear
He married Sophia Ellen Gray , of the British Museum– settling £8000(about £500k now) on him in 1847 – with one daughter Emma.Her father was a distinguished Keeper at the Museum and mother a published illustrator.
1888-1918 Emma and Arthur Wellington Massy (from Cottesmore,Haverfordwest)
married in April 1881
Four children. Sophia died in 1907 Arthur in ?? Emma in 1932The House and estate was auctioned in 1918. Lot One – the House and 93 acres
1918-36 The Mystery Years
All that is known is : William Harries Owen from Solva was the owner when it was sold in 1936. In Jan 1930 he bought it from William Roberts and James Rees. He sold it for £2,350.
1936-51 Colonel Lawrence Hugh Higgon
From Scolton Manor. Left to live at Manorbier and died aged 99 in 1983
Children Pat and Ailine
1951-66 Charles Athol Lyndon Barros and Margaret Barros
First a pig farmer here and then created the Hotel with a tennis court and swimming pool. Left to run kennels near Cardiff. Contemplated burning Cuffern down to save himself from financial ruin
1966-74 David and Stella Butler
Left to run the Pembrokeshire Yeoman in H’west
1975 -84 George and Billa Barath |(Hungarian)
He was a chef. Two girls , Emma and ?
Ran up debts. Left suddenly
1986-1999- Christopher Farr from Weston-Super-Mare –
Created a Nursing Home. Removed all traces of the historic interior.
Four children – sued Pembrokeshire Council and lost –left in a hurry
Aug 2001-2004 Richard and Maureen Langston from Oxford
Two sons. Now living back in Oxford . Also Maureen’s brother Eric. His illness and their exhaustion led to the reluctant exit.
2004-201? Jayne and Julian Rutter from Bath
A visit from two sisters (Hazel Williams and Jan Dickenson)
Two sisters (Hazel Williams and Jan Dickenson) who were evacuated to Cuffern Manor in the war.and made a nostalgic return in August 2015. Arriving at Haverfordwest station from Battersea were the Clark family, a pregnant Mum and two children – Joyce, aged 10 and Hazel, aged 5. They were taken in by Colonel Higgon and his wife and brought back to Cuffern Manor. Also with them were Mums friend and her son. Col Higgon and his mum (so they said) welcomed them and were extyremely kind and generous. They had a room with cupboards and a bathroom and were taken every week to H’west to spend the money that the Higgons received for having them. When the butcher visited with his pony and trap their Mum would go and choose the meat they needed for the week. The baby, Jan, was delivered at Cuffern Manor.
Later they went back to Battersea, maybe to see their father before he went to fight, but then returned and found Cuffern occupied by the army so Mrs Higgon arranged for her friend Mrs Foley-Phillips (Baroness de Rutzen , she was of ‘ handsome stature’) at Ridgeway House Llawhaden ( now a nursing home) to take the family in. She was also very kind and generous. They had the use of a huge kitchen and scullery. In the long conservatory was a section of tree with Nelson’s initials carved. Her dogs Sarah and Tony , were always at her feet. She also took them in the car, driven by Palmer, ‘ man of all trades’, to town, and made sure Mr Voyle, the butcher received a good order when he came calling in his pony and trap. They made friends with the local children and walked to school , two classrooms and teachers and the headmaster, Mr. Lewis keeping an eye out each morning for the stragglers., and Miss Owen arranged bottles of tea around the fire for lunchtime. Their biggest friends were the five sisters from the Johns family, who have remained friends ever since.
Note 1 . Who was the kind ‘Mrs Foley-Philipps? Sir Charles Fisher had married the Slebech/Picton heiress Mary ( her step brother, the second Lord Milford prediseased her) and fought off a legal challenge to the estates from the 12th Baronet James Erasmus Phillips (died 1912) and then adopted himself the name Philipps. He was Lord Lieutenant 1876 until 1924 and Chairman of the newly founded Pembrokeshire County Counmcil, from 1897-99. His son and then grandson John (1915-48) inherited and when John died aged 33, his sister( Sheila Victoria Katrin Philipps ) inherited Slebech. Her husband ( married in 1932) Baron John de Rutzen (John Frederick Foley de Rutzen,) born on 27 January 1909 owned Picton but he died in the war – in Italy in 1944 during WW2. Sheila sold the houses, though not the landed estates, and then moved to Ridgeway House. She remarried on 8 October 1947 Lieut.-Col. the Hon. Randal Plunket who afterwards succeeded as the 19th Lord Dunsany
Laurence Hugh Higgon and wife Neda Kathleen Cecil Higgon, nee Rennick
He was the younger brother of Major John Arthur Higgon, who was the father of the last owner of Scolton Manor.
The House And Its Occupants
Some time in the early years of the 20th century a young 18 year old girl left her home in Kent and travelled to Cuffern Manor to become governess. Hilda Collins met and married a Mr Devonald, whose cottage stands today in ruins on the causeway just before Gwachel Farm. Later living at a cottage in Ferny Glen Hilda gave birth to a son, Bill Devonald, who. now aged 83 is responsible for keeping our oil central heating going.
Research time has been limited so few developments here. We have been given a copy of an aerial picture made in the 1970’s which shows some interesting features, the extension on the east side, the swimming pool ,tennis court. and stables Mike and Grace Penfold, who lent the picture both claim to be the figure toiling in their private garden outside the walled garden.
We visited Cottesmore house and its present owner, Charlotte. Charlotte’s parents bought the house from the Massy family 40 (?) years ago. One of the Massy sons married a Stokes daughter and were the last family occupants of Cuffern Manor before the auction in 1918.
We searched the Massy papers at the National Library of Wales and discovered some interesting maps and photographs. The 1778 estate map done for John Rees Stokes by Charles Hassell, an 1812 estate map of land to the east owned by John Jones Esq. and also three previously unseen photos from before the Ist world war.
The volume of guests and the building work have restricted the research recently. But we should record that in April Maureen and Richard Langston sold Cuffern Manor Cottages and left with some regrets we thought. They still retain an interest in the woods and have promised to stay with us when visiting, Richard being very keen to mow the grass for old times sake. They left us their history file and the following was one item of interest :
A summary of an article appearing in the Western Telegraph on 19th December 1894: A long article, obviously causing a considerable stir at the time. In short a widow, Mrs Hester (Hetty) Morris, occupied a cottage at Dirty Pool on the Cuffern estate with four young children. The description of the cottage is vivid – a real hovel, 11ft by 9 ft with earthen floor. Hetty’s husband had died and she scraped a livingas a farm labourer on the Cuffern farm (tenant Matthew Reynish), wages were dreadful and conditions even worse but that was NOT the problem. She had been left with three children but then produced another illegitimate child. Mrs Sophie Elizabeth Stokes of Cuffern Manor did not approve of this immoral behaviour and tried to have her evicted and when Hetty appeared to object and claim a tenancy, she sent workers in to remove the roof of the cottage. Mrs Stokes then stopped anyone in the village from giving her shelter. Hetty walked in the pouring rain to Haverfordwest to seek help from the Chief Constable, who was absent, returned home to fond the children in the unroofed cottage, wet through. This episode seems to have caused a furore with the Camrose police constable being very sympathetic. Mrs. Stokes seems to have gone away after issuing the deroofing order but her daughter and son-in-law, the Masseys, did make efforts to repair the cottage and provide some other help.
The 1891 Census tells us that Esther Morris’ s children were Anne 8, William 7 Thomas 4 and John ,six months. Esther was born in Llawhaden and was then aged 27.)
We belong to the Pembrokeshire Historic Gardens Trust and Gerry Hudson who is recorder for the group has lent us the Cuffern Manor file, compiled by him at the time of a visit in 1999. The picture (right) which we’d not seen before was there.
As I understand it the parapet , seen here, was destroyed in the 1899 fire . The 1891 census records the house occupied by Sophia Stokes ( the same tormentor of Hetty Morris) aged 78 and her daughter Emma and son-in-law Arthur Massey. Then they had 3 children—the eldest Hugh was then aged 7, Herbert 6 and Charles 3. There were 8 live in servants, consistent with the size of household here. This seems to date the photo well.
Cuffern comes from the Welsh word Coffrwm. From the 12th century the manor of Cuffern had connections with the Knights Hospitallers of Slebech. In the 15th century it was still listed amongst their possessions.
The manor of Cuffern, distinct from Roch, had several landowners. In 1770 the present house was built by a member of the Stokes family. In 1691 one Antony Stokes, described as a Gent, claimed a messuage and 190 acres at ‘Coffrom’. By 1775 John Rees had adopted the name John Rees Stokes when he married Frances Warren of Trewern and he is the presumed builder of the house. A record of 1837 shows the estate consisted of 240 acres of land with the manor, the 94 acres of Cuffren Farm, the 114 acres of the mountain and the 95 acres of Start farm.
In 1811 Fenton visited the house was entertained by John Rees Stokes. He wrote ” ‘Kyffern’ ‘here under this hospitable roof I lose the fatigues of the day and next morning pursue my route.’ “
In 1899 there was a fire at the house. The extent of the damage is not known but when the house was listed in 1963 it explained that the roof had ‘before the fire’ been ‘behind a front parapet as shown in the water colour of 1830’s.’
The big break up of the estate took place, like many others, after the First World War. On the 29th May 1918 at the Castle Hotel in Haverfordwest it was sold in eight lots, 592 Acres in total. It mentioned it as being “the remaining portions of the estate…with compact holdings known as Home Farm, Rock Farm, Ferny Glen, the Start, Slad, Middle Slad, Dirty Gate and Gwachal and High Gate.”
In 1963 the manor was being used as a hotel. We have found some bar stools in the wood and one friend has told us how her father first ate caviar here, either a special occasion or their usual fare. The swimming pool in the front of the house and the tennis court inside the walled garden were presumably part of this era rather than that of the later nursing home! There was a time when it fell into disrepair and in 1986 the interior was refurbished to provide for the nursing home, which it remained as until 2000. The extension was probably built around 1986.
The current owners Jayne and Julian Rutter from Bath bought the house in 2004.
In December we spent a pleasant few hours in the company of David Butler, once hotel owner here, circa 1966-74. He was an aircraft engineer from the Midlands who had worked for Lockeed and GEC.